A New Beginning
Thursday, October 18, 2007
We finally made the decision to withdraw from CHI and start over with another agency. It was a very tough decision to make since it feels like we’ve just wasted the last 2 years. If you’ve been following our blog, you know that we’ve made no progress since our dossier was submitted in May 2006. We were never encouraged to switch regions to go independent until last month even though we asked about this back in January. Even after moving to a new region, our agency’s only option for us was to continue waiting for accreditation.
We had been asking ourselves how to know when it was the right time to cut loose and start over. I honestly didn’t think we would do it but after talking to our new agency on the phone, there was not a doubt in our minds about this being the right thing to do and the right time to do it. It just all fell into place and felt right. I mention this because I know some other couples struggle with the same uncertainties and doubts about making this drastic of a move. My suggestion if you are considering switching is to talk to the other agencies and then follow your heart.
We’ve felt more optimistic and in control in the past few days than we had at any point in the last year or so. We’ve spent this week putting our 3rd dossier together and updating our home study. We’re getting to be quite the dossier pros! We should have it all finished up and ready for the apostilles next week.
I want to say thank you to all of you that have left encouraging comments and emails the past few weeks. It really helps having a support system. Wish us luck on our journey with our new agency!
We had been asking ourselves how to know when it was the right time to cut loose and start over. I honestly didn’t think we would do it but after talking to our new agency on the phone, there was not a doubt in our minds about this being the right thing to do and the right time to do it. It just all fell into place and felt right. I mention this because I know some other couples struggle with the same uncertainties and doubts about making this drastic of a move. My suggestion if you are considering switching is to talk to the other agencies and then follow your heart.
We’ve felt more optimistic and in control in the past few days than we had at any point in the last year or so. We’ve spent this week putting our 3rd dossier together and updating our home study. We’re getting to be quite the dossier pros! We should have it all finished up and ready for the apostilles next week.
I want to say thank you to all of you that have left encouraging comments and emails the past few weeks. It really helps having a support system. Wish us luck on our journey with our new agency!
posted by Dede at 6:09 PM




10 Comments:
It sounds like you both are feeling much happier - it even comes through in your writing. Best of luck with the new agency and hope your dossier is done soon!
I am so happy for you and your decision to move to another agency. I hope everything moves quickly for you!
Good luck putting your new dossier together. I am glad you made the decision that's right for you. Please keep us all updated - we can't wait to hear!!
I'm glad that you all are feeling better about the process now. I can't believe you have had to wait so long. I hope that you will get a quick referral! Would you send me an email and let me know what agency you decided to go with? Good luck with your dossier!
You know I'm behind you 110% girl! Here's hoping that our paths will cross on our upcoming travels.
I commented after your comment but basically, you're decision was the reason for my blog post.
I think this was clearly the right move for you guys and I think you'll get that "warm & fuzzy" feeling pretty quickly since things should start moving at a much faster rate now.
I think it was an easier decision for you guys because of all of the stuff that's being going on at CHI recently.
So glad you've made a decision that is the best for you both. It really sounds like you put a bunch of thought into it. I wish you lots of luck in this switch helping you bring your baby home very soon.
Best wishes and prayers to you on your new journey.
I'm glad you're feeling better with a change and I hope, hope, hope that your journey moves quicker now! :) Are you sharing your new agency?
Dede,
I will pray that you are the next referral I read about. Knowing you are at peace with this decision is what makes this decision the right decision.
Joy
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