As Christmas approaches, Dede & I have been talking quite a bit about toys for our new tot. And I was further prompted to ponder on this by a blog post by Bob over at every, every minute. A few main topics surfaced as we reflected back on our childhood toys…
Maybe Less Is More
Both of our families were of meager incomes when we were kids, so birthday & Christmas gifts were sparse. And yet, we’ve decided that because we weren’t showered with dozens of toys the way kids are now, the toys we did receive were more meaningful, more special, and certainly more treasured… I’d be very interested to hear your views on this — does anyone else think that, in an an unconscious effort to show our love for our kids, we shower them with far too many gifts & toys?
So maybe it’s precisely because we had a limited number of toys that some of those really stand out for us even today. For me, these were:
- My first bicycle — It took awhile, but once I learned to ride a bike, it was more than transport, it was sweet freedom on swift wheels! (Thank you Thomas Latham, wherever you are!)
- Legos — One of those odd skills that I possess is a keen knack for spatial relationships. I can often rearrange the furniture in a room mentally and know whether it’s going to fit before ever lifting a thing. And I’m a packing guru — Dede just sets out what she wants packed & stands back. A great deal of this, I attribute to Legos & other "building" toys.
- G.I. Joes — the classic 12" dudes, with Kung-Fu grip, of course!
For Dede, the standout toys included:
- Easy Bake Oven — Those little cakes were so awesome, but I always got so frustrated waiting on them to finish cooking (and cooling) so the door would unlock!
- Bicycle — the ultimate Christmas gift, so huge it wouldn’t even fit under the tree, and it magically appeared in the middle of the night.
- Baby First Step — she graciously volunteered to be the guinea pig for (and put a quick end to) my dreams of becoming a hairdresser.
Tots Don’t Need Tech
A subject I revisit frequently is how much technology should we introduce to young children. As a parent-to-be, I fully identify with those who want their kids to have the educational advantages of computers & techie stuff, but I’m . I’ve yet to see any real proof that today’s teched-out kids are any better-equipped for their future than kids were 10 years ago when there wasn’t all of this pressure to teach computers to little children. Now, I’m not suggesting we should deprive our little ones the chance to build computer-use skills — only that we resist the temptation to make that a primary educational focus. I’m convinced that tactile toys are still far more mind-expanding than technological ones.